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My daughter is in the same boat alongside you. She will turn 30 in October and is happily single. I assume since she moved from Illinois to Florida for her occupation, meeting a great guy became more difficult, just because she left her friends and family behind. Those are the very people who would have been fixing her up. She has tried the various dating sites, but nothing ever came of it. Yes, she'd love to be in a relationship, begin a family one day. But she is also pleased with the independence of being single. When she least expects it, she will meet the perfect guy. If she is happy, then I'm a happy mother.
I agree with most of your opinions...really, almost all of your thoughts. But I feel like once you get to a certain age, online dating is a necessary evil. I'm also in my early 30's and have been doing it for a little over a year, after coming out of a long-term relationship. I would rather not need to go down that road, but began the journey optimistically. Ha! I can not really say, it sucks. But as we get old and settled into our own lives and professions, the individual individual population dwindles and (at least where I live) it is very hard to meet up available men 'naturally.' Perhaps TMI, but if my ovaries did not have a shelf life, I Had merely be doing my thing and waiting for Mr. Glen Huntly VIC casual sex. Excellent to magically appear. Sadly that isn't the situation...
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