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Also, I think any girl that's pretty good looking and serious about finding someone will not be a on a dating site really long - either it will prove too much for them and they'll cease or they will find someone quickly. I am always wary of the good looking girls that hang out on these websites long term. Coorparoo Casual Sex. If you read their profiles they will usually have a laundry list of "must haves" that just cries high maintenance OR they will not bother with any content at all and let their photos do all the work. These girls have let the enormous amount of choice they get from online dating go to their head and most seem obsessed with finding the right man. It wouldn't surprise me if they end up becoming used a lot by men telling them everything they need to hear and then dumping them once they get them into bed. Funnily enough it does not seem to occur to them that maybe they are looking for the wrong things.
I've really tried before to use dating sites to meet women but have had no success, in the end I went back to meeting people face to face. I've seen so many women whine within their profiles that they get hurt because they appear to attract the incorrect type of men, forgetting that it's THEY themselves who actually choose to respond to said men, rather obviously ignoring more appropriate men. Women also say that some men are creepy, but what they never say is that it is dependent on the guy and not the comment. If Joe Bloggs made some risque remark to a woman, he would be classed as creepy..... however, if George Clooney made the exact same comment, her panties would be off in a flash. I've had women check out my profile several times a day on a daily basis, but when I have contacted them, they have not responded. I've seen women in their own late forties say in their profiles they are not interested in guys who are more than three years older than themselves because they don't believe in a big age difference, and then put their favourite age of partner as between thirty and forty years of age! In the face of all that, it's little wonder that I ceased trying to meet women online. After reading a number of the profiles, and discovering some of the behaviour, it appears to me that there's a superb reason why many of these women have resorted to dating sites to find a partner. As for me, I am now happily married to a stunningly beautiful girl I met whilst out walking. I began speaking to her without any intention of attempting to chat her up, knowing that she was way out of my league,
And why is your scornful attitude toward women any better? Both men as well as women would do well to think about developing relationships over time rather than anticipating instant hot perfection that will continue forever, and in the event you believe it is not so mature in the straight community, you should see how crazy it is in the lesbian community, when women do not have to worry about potential pregnancy. Instant sex is designed to bond them forever, yet when the glow wears off (and I Have delete a word with that), you have got TWO picky women (not only one, like straight guys need to put up with) nitpicking each other's shortcomings (I do not enjoy her dog, her mother, her feminism's not evolved enough, she's too/not enough PC, blah, blah, blah). ALL folk would do well to slow it down enough to let things develop more naturally. I have a theory the reason so many women like Jane Austen stories ( and a fair variety of men, if they'll acknowledge it) is because the love stories develop over time, with mistakes and arrest that have to be beat, with both time and effort.
Online dating is very unhealthy for society. Most of my buddies attempt online dating and also the only ones who get dates are the guys that are smooth talkers and then will literally have sex in a bar toilet with a brand new girl they just met while they already have a girlfriend. The nice guys get overlooked ALWAYS. Even if the nice guy looks half decent. Ladies wind up thinking every man wants them inflating their ego to an unrealistic amount. And finally they gravitate to a smooth talker who is out of their league for long term dating afterward they feel there are not any great guys. Good Men SHOULD NOT date online or they'll feel unwanted and finally need mental help. Girls shouldn't date online because they are going to set they can't discern between good guys and bad players There's some success but it seems far to much work for a guy to get success.
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This message board has taught me so much. I've been dating online on and off for at least 2 years. I'm 43. I'm decent looking, I believed LOL. I have a fantastic occupation, house, one kid, no play. I figure I am cool, but a little dreary? I simply do not believe I understand how to present myself or heck I really do not understand. I get guys that just want a piece or simply wanna try dating me simply because they have never dated outside their race (which I really don't mind but I Had like them to like me and not the piece of I potentially represent). Its actually crushing to the spirit. I really don't know if I 'll even continue online dating after reading all the viewpoints here. I'm really a active man that does not get out much to meet people and a little shy when it comes to getting to know folks. So I think I'll either put my big girl panties on and just go sit at a bar or give up and be alone. (sigh)
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