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I really like this post. I can totally connect on each level. I dated someone for 3 years off match once I was 23 and it was amazing, but ultimately as we grew up we shifted and weren't the greatest fit. My biggest issue with internet dating now is that there are SO many people on it that I feel like most individuals aren't serious about dating and it is just a large hook up expectation. OR worse is when you've got a fantastic shared connection with someone but then they think they could find something better because there are millions of others online. Frustrating! I am a big believer in everything happens for a reason so just keep doing what youre doing and it all works out in the end. My fave line simply stop looking and you will find someone...but make sure you're putting yourself out there." Haha

To begin with, you articulated all the things I think about/feel when I do date online. Except, much more eloquently. As a single woman in her early 30s (I feel your dating associated pain) it was truly refreshing to read this post. I then instantly read all your other blog posts on dating and being single. Most articles and blog posts I read have a condescending tone towards women or propose changing themselves to be able to be more guy friendly, which is really irritating. Your posts on being single and dating offer a whole new perspective: accepting who you are, being happy with your life as it is currently, but also still believing in love, and giving yourself a break when being single feels extremely tough. It was truly refreshing and I liked to say that I appreciate it. Additionally, you have given me a lot to think about re: online dating. I tend to believe it is the SOLE way to meet folks, but it is really just one manner. I tell myself it is the only way, because all my friends are married and all their pals are married, too. So, I actually don't get set up very frequently.

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Just as I was going to cease doing it because I was .... tired of the dating game .... Lenny pinged me. After fourteen days of emailing back and forth, we went out, and have been together ever since. Going strong and striking 12 years in June. We are best friends, excellent lovers, began a business together, purchased a house, write Chez Us and travel the world. I'm glad I didn't turn it off quite yet that one day in May 12 years past, or I would have never met my soulmate, and likely would have still been too active, and single at 47.

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I was against only dating for a very long time. And I mean actually against. I presumed it was the simple" way out of being single. And then one night in a low minute I downloaded Tinder. Still was not confident about it but figured, why not?." Less than a month later I met the guy who's now my boyfriend and the complete man of my dreams. And you know what? I did not check a single box, or make any demands" other than my location and needless to say, that I liked men. He's NOTHING like what I believed I desired and due to his crazy work schedule, and the two of our feels about bars, I would not have met him otherwise. Individuals can't believe that we met on Tinder because we're so perfect for each other. We just look at it as fate in the type of Tinder. So I urge you or any other single girl not to over think them. It may work, it may not. However do not go making judgments or premises. You never understand how God will work in your own life.

My daughter is in the same boat alongside you. She will turn 30 in October and is happily single. I suppose since she moved from Illinois to Florida for her occupation, meeting a great guy became more challenging, simply because she left her friends and family behind. Those are the very individuals who'd have been fixing her up. She's tried the various dating sites, but nothing ever came of it. Yes, she would love to be in a relationship, start a family one day. But she's also happy with the freedom of being single. When she least expects it, she will meet the right guy. If she is happy, then I am a happy mother.

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I agree with the majority of your sentiments...actually, almost all of your thoughts. However , I feel like once you get to a certain age, online dating is a necessary evil. I'm also in my early 30's and have been doing it for a little over a year, after coming out of a long term relationship. I'd rather not have to go down that road, but began the journey optimistically. Ha! I can't honestly say, it blows. However, as we get old and settled into our own lives and careers, the single person people dwindles and (at least where I live) it's very hard to meet available men 'naturally.' Perhaps TMI, but if my ovaries did not have a shelf life, I'd only be doing my thing and waiting for Mr. Amazing to magically appear. Sadly that isn't the case...

Thank you so much for this! I agree with so many of those things! I 've several friends and family members that are dating/living with/married to people they meet through online dating, but it just hasn't worked for me. I've been on online dating sites off and on for over a year. I have gone some of adequate dates and lots of dates which make good stories" but not one of them have panned out into second dates. And the more bad dates I go on the more difficult it's to go on more blind online dates. I begin expecting them to be briefer than they say, have a stutter or come out to me a day or two following the date (all of those have happened). This is such a refreshing outlook to read!!! My mantra is becoming I Had rather have no dates than bad dates" :)

What a great list! I believe you're so right about all of these things! My buddies which are using dating websites are using several at once...and dating several people at a time as a result of all of the choices. I am not positive, but I just do not believe breaking up your time between several folks is the way to get a partner. You know? A relationship is all-encompassing and it WOn't triumph without 100% focus. That's just my opinion, though. Playing the field has never set right with me. It is like trying to cook 5 things at the same time. It will taste better if you focus on 1 recipe at a time ;)

I've had many friends have great luck online though. So you can blame me for being picky. Casual encounters near Victoria. But if you want my opinion, it just has not been the appropriate time, the perfect guy, the right me, the rightwhatever yet. And in my mind and in my heart of hearts, I 've peace about that. Sure, some days it's challenging. But I have recognized that I'd rather have a challenging single day when compared to a hard evening out on a date using a man I met online and likely didn't actually enjoy all that much, after having met him through a procedure I really didn't like all that much. And honestly, online dating takes lots of time and emotional energy. And if there are not matches occurring that feel like actual matches, I have other things I Had rather be doing and people I'd rather be spending time with.

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